Monday, July 27, 2015

...until death do us part

I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part. 


I have never seen these vows so beautifully demonstrated as I did the other day.  I was visiting a senior living facility and while I was waiting for a friend, I noticed an elderly man in the dining hall.  He had difficulty getting around and was in a wheelchair.  He was also pushing a walker alongside him.  He turned to an elderly lady that appeared to have dimentia and gently tapped her on the shoulder and whispered into her ear.  He reached over and embraced her arm to help her stand.  As he whispered words of encouragement, I realized this was his wife.  It was beautiful!


Even though the difficulties of aging are hard to face, I would be blessed to have my spouse by my side, helping me stand, and taking care of me.  I would be equally blessed to be able to take care of him.  What a beautiful example, Mr. and Mrs. Walker!


Monday, July 20, 2015

Throw Away The Boxes!

Even though I love teaching during the school year, I also love my three months of projects, playing with the grandkids, and the opportunity to read.  I try to read four books during the summer.  I am a little behind schedule, but I choose some pretty lengthy books this time around.

I have been reading The Preacher and The Presidents by Nancy Gibbs and Michael Duffy, The Hobbit by J.R.R. Tolkien, A Place of Healing by Joni Eareckson Tada and lastly, Brain Rules by John Medina.  That is quite a variety of books!

Brain Rules is a book my daughter had to read for one of her courses in college.  She thought I would benefit from the suggestions the book makes on keeping people's attention during a training session.  I have appreciated the lessons on visual stimuli and how our brains respond to it.

What captured my attention the most, however, was the very first paragraph in the Introduction.  This paragraph made the book for me!

Go ahead and multiply the number 8,388,628 x 2 in your head.  Can you do it in a few seconds?  There is a young man who can double that number 24 times in the space of a few seconds.  He gets it right every time.  There is a boy who can tell you the precise time of day at any moment, even in his sleep.  There is a girl who can correctly determine the exact dimensions of an object 20 feet away.  There is a child who at age 6 drew such vivid and complex pictures, some people ranked her version of a galloping horse over one drawn by da Vinci.  Yet none of these children have an IQ greater than 70.

This is amazing!  As a society we try to think we are so smart by developing tests and formulas and based on those results, put children in a "category" of intelligence.  We have the potential of missing out on so much when we do this.  I will never forget a little boy in my life that could not communicate in a conventional way and as a society we could make all kinds of assumptions based on that.  However, he could recite ALL of the credits at the end of a movie just by seeing it one time!

For me, there are two lessons to be learned.  One, never underestimate the capabilities of the brain and two, don't put people in a box!  You just never know what someone has the ability to do, as well as the potential to do.  We just need to throw away the boxes and look for the unexpected gifts.


Brain Rules by John Medina. Published in 2014 by Pear Press.

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Come visit our new website!

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us  Ephesians 3:20

My journey with God has been one great road trip.  I never know exactly where we are going but I do know that God is going to take me to some beautiful places.  Every twist and turn is going to impact my view on life and every person I meet along the way will impact my perspective on people.    

I have been praying for the last year in particular that God would reveal His plans to me for the next part of my ministry journey and He has given me immeasurably more that all I could have asked or imagined.  God has been too good to me to be fearful.  I am just really excited!

It has been an exciting month working on the new website, getting brochures and business cards designed, and connecting with people that have similar visions.  I am up until one or two in the morning every night and even then it is hard to shut off my brain.

I are excited to share our new website with you.  Bill and I will serve together in training churches and I will also serve by teaching children.  We would covet your prayers and your partnership as we seek to support those affected by disabilities.  I hope you will join us in our excitement!

Come visit us at www.gracewithoutmargins.com and leave your e-mail so we can share the journey ahead.

Blessings,
Bill and Deana