Sunday, June 28, 2015

Supporting Young Artists

I love to support the arts and I especially like to support talented young artists!  One of my favorite artists is Kimberly Dixon.  I have known her for 15+ years and I am so excited to see her incredible talent become available for all to see. At  www.kimsgifts.etsy.com. you can pick up her book, Under the Silence is Me - How It feels To Be Nonverbal, and you can purchase some of her beautiful artwork.  I proudly have one of her prints hanging in my home!

This weekend I met another talented young artist, Grant Manier.  You can view and purchase his beautiful artwork at http://www.grantsecoart.com.  He is already receiving awards for his artwork and   I am confident he will be famous someday.  His artwork is eco-friendly and you won't even believe the medium he has used.  What an honor it was to meet you, Grant!

Both of these artists have been affected by disabilities.  They are also blessed with great abilities.  I highly encourage you to visit their websites and stores.  If you know of other talented artists affected by disabilities, I would love for you to share them with me.  

Have fun shopping!

Saturday, June 27, 2015

A Super Hero Day!

Joni Eareckson Tada is one of my heroes.  I first became familiar with her when I was a teenager and God has blessed me with the opportunity to be in her presence every ten years since then.  I have been blessed to see her graciousness firsthand, to marvel over her giftedness, and listen to her perspectives on God, people, and those affected by disabilities.

I was blessed by one comment in particular that she shared today.  "Own your weakness."  For me, it has taken forty years to understand that God's power and strength can be revealed through our weaknesses.  For me, when I personally own my weakness it is then that God can do amazing things.

Joni also blessed me today by hearing her talk about her love for Christ and her sweet relationship with Him.  If you are not familiar with Joni and her ministry, I highly encourage you to spend some time on her website and reading her devotionals and books.  http://joniandfriends.org.

Thank you for a special day today, Joni.  I hope to see you sooner, but if not, I will see you in my 60's!


Saturday, June 20, 2015

Adjusting To A Disability

It has been almost a year since Bill's table saw accident.  I will never forget his phone call from the ambulance, "Deana, can you bring me some clothes?  I seem to have cut my pinky off."  I had no idea how much damage was done until I got to the hospital.

Bill had cut off his pinky, but had also severed a number of tendons, two arteries, and most of the muscle and nerves in his hand.  The first surgery took about 3 1/2 hours and the second one was about 12 hours.  This summer he will have to have another surgery on his hand and we are praying that will be the last.

Bill has had to overcome so much this year.  The nightmares were horrible for awhile.  He has had to become ambidextrous. but is left-handed now for the most part and uses mostly dictation software.  He had to have his bike rebuilt so he could adequately use the brakes and has had to learn to face his fears when he hears the sounds of power tools.  He has severe pain in his hand a great deal of the time.  If he wears a glove it helps his brain to focus on the pressure rather than the pain and it makes it more bearable.

It has been hard to watch Bill be in pain and have to relearn so many skills a different way, but the great thing is, he has.  All of the phrases we have used in disability ministry have taken on a new meaning now.  "You can still do it, you may just have to do it differently."  

The other day God gave us a precious gift though.  I was with my mom at a restaurant and said hello to a gentleman that was leaving as we were leaving.  I asked him if he was a veteran and he told me he had served in the Korean War.  I told him that my father and father-in-law had too.  This gentleman endured many injuries from serving our country, including a missing arm and surgeries on his other hand. On his hand he had the same surgery that Bill is going to have.  

I cannot describe the amazing spirit this gentleman and his wife had.  I was very moved by their story and invited them to come over and meet Bill and have some dinner with us sometime.  It makes me sad to think I would have missed out on some amazing people if I hadn't said hello.  It reminded me that God is always going to go ahead of us and provide us just what we need.  Encouraging friends that can understand our situations are a tremendous blessing.

As we get closer to the surgery at the end of July we would appreciate your prayers that Bill will gain more strength and movement in his hand and that the scar tissue will be at a minimum.  We are also praying for release from the pain in his hand.  Thank you for praying.  We are so grateful.






Friday, June 12, 2015

Stay Tuned...

It is now almost 3 o'clock in the morning but the new ideas for our ministry are pouring in.  Over the years I have learned to take advantage of these moments and stop everything to jot down the ideas as they come.  I can catch up on sleep later!

I have been praying for months about what God wants us to do in the next phase of the Special Needs Ministry and I must say, I am very excited!  I covet your prayers as we pray through this process.

Be watching for a new name, logo, website, and great opportunities to minister and grow together.  God never ceases to amaze me with the adventures we can go on if we just stay open and watch for where He is working.

Stay tuned....
Deana

Tuesday, June 9, 2015

10 Things To Think About

1.  How do you describe people?  Do you start with their weight?  Their disability?  How about starting off with the characteristics that draw you to them.

2.  If you suddenly had a disability, what would you want people to know?  How would you want people to treat you?

3.  What disability is the hardest for you to understand? Would meeting a person with this disability make you uncomfortable?  Spend some time learning about it on the internet.  Then when you meet someone with that disability, you will be much more understanding.

4.  Walk a mile in someone else's shoes and then write about the experience.  

5.  The next time you are parking somewhere, think about how close you really need to be.  Leave close parking spaces open for those that really need it.

6.  When you see someone with a child that has a disability, say hello to the child and tell the parent how beautiful they are.  All parents love to hear compliments about their children.

7.  At your next family gathering, make sure everyone feels included.  If older family members start to withdraw they may have a hard time hearing.  Help make the situation easier on them and even encourage them to get their hearing checked if needed.

8.  Visit a loved one that may feel shut-in or isolated.  Take them some flowers or take them on a walk.

9.  If you know someone with a disability, take one of their siblings out for a coke or ice cream and have some special one-on-one time!

10.  If you know a caregiver, send them a card thanking them for all they do or offer to help and give them some time to themselves.