Saturday, January 28, 2012

Living the Dream...

     Eight months ago I had one of my dreams fulfilled when I went to the "Colorado Christian Writer's Conference."  My students had given me the opportunity to fulfill my dreams of writing.  I had the opportunity to be in the presence of so many great writers for three days and I loved every minute of it.
     I have been able to work on my books here and there since the conference but have taken it more seriously in the last couple of months.  I am trying to apply all of the things I learned last spring as I navigate the world of publishing.  My children's book was written 11 years ago and will be in print by April.  The book about special needs ministry is almost completed and will hopefully be available in July.  It has been a wonderful journey and I am so grateful for the cheerleaders I have had along the way.  
     2011 was a tough year but I am hopeful about 2012 as I follow the dreams God has given me.  I would appreciate your prayers as I move forward.

Blessings,
Deana


Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Fairness

Bill and I were introduced to Richard Lavoie's trainings quite a few years ago and often include clips in our trainings.  He is great at helping people understand what it is like to have learning challenges.  In this clip he presents an excellent explanation of fairness.  It can be applied in the educational classroom, the Sunday school classroom, and in everyday experiences as well.  It has changed my perspective on numerous situations.  I would love your feedback!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6G9--hUQDwY&feature=related

Deana

Monday, January 23, 2012

No Words, Yet Powerful

Yesterday, I talked about how much I love words.  Today I want to share how powerful silence can be.  Take a moment to watch this powerful video and watch it all the way through.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9tK3B9gXR-w&feature=related


Blessings,
Deana

Friday, January 20, 2012

Hope

     I never really thought about it before but one of my friends, who is also the parent of one of my students, said, "You really love words."  For my 50th birthday, she and her daughter made me a wonderful sign that consisted of 50 words about me.  I never really thought about it before, but I really do love words.  I always notice wall hangings that are made up of words.  I love all of the quotes carved in the marble of so many memorials and buildings in Washington, DC.  I love the way they look and I love the impact they can make.  Words.

     One of my favorite words, and the one I have been thinking about the most in the last couple of months, is HOPE.  It is an incredibly powerful word.  One of the best quotes I have read about hope is,

                                       "Hope is grief's best music"  ~Author Unknown

     It would be easy to criticize the word, hope.  It is not tangible, measurable, or provable but I can't deny it is "grief's best music."  Whether you are suffering or watching someone suffer, or your life just simply turned out differently than you wanted it to, hope does add music to the grief.

     My brother once told me,  "Sometimes you just need to take a minute to pause."  I have found a great deal of comfort in those words.  When life gets overwhelming or hard to figure out, a moment to pause often helps.  You will find that you have a number of options to choose from in that moment but,

                       "Once you choose hope, anything's possible."  ~Christopher Reeve

Monday, January 16, 2012

Happy Martin Luther King Day!

Dear Daddy,

I miss you so much today.  There are so many things I wish I had done today.  I wish I had known about the march in downtown Austin in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  I would have marched in it.  I wish I had gone to your grave and told you how much I love you.  I wish I had gone out and bought a stranger a meal like you would have done.

Instead, I have honored you in another way.  I have loved on your grandchildren and great-grandchildren today.  I have prepared my lesson for my students tomorrow on Dr. King's dream.  I have worked on my books in hopes they will someday help with the dream and other groups of people are not marginalized.

Dad, one day you met and heard Dr. King speak and it changed your life and consequently, it changed the lives of those that were touched by you.  As a good friend once told me, "Today your dad is talking in heaven with Dr. Martin Luther King."  That makes me happy, Dad, and I sure wish I could hear the conversation!!

I love you!
Deana

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Special Needs Ministry Training/Austin, Texas

Whether you are a church blessed with a few children or a number of children affected by special needs or a parent or volunteer looking for support in starting a special needs ministry, we would love to have you join us for our training sessions.

Special Needs Ministry Training Part I:  Austin, Texas
Saturday, February 4, 2012
8:30 am - 1:30 p.m.

"How to Start a Special Needs Ministry":  Attend a one-hour training that will help you think outside the box on what this ministry can look like.  We will discuss ideas on how to get your church leadership and congregation on board, changing a culture and recruiting, training and motivating volunteers.  We will also discuss some of the obstacles and blessings you will encounter in this ministry.

B.U.D.D.Y. I:  Join us for a three-hour B.U.D.D.Y. training.  This training focuses on the nuts and bolts of working with a variety of disabilities and age groups.  During this portion of the training we will discuss behavior modification strategies, handling seizures, general safety and security issues, as well as many other topics.

A continental breakfast and lunch will be served.  The cost is $25 per person.

Please contact us, Bill and Deana Boggess, at theboggi@aim.com or sntraining@hcbc.com.
You can also reach us at 512-506-8858.  As soon as you contact us, we will give you additional information on location, etc.  We look forward to hearing from you.

Friday, January 6, 2012

A Sunday Morning Blessing

She arrived early on a Sunday morning so that she could beat the crowds and get her favorite seat in the sanctuary.  The hallways were quiet as though the church hadn't woken up yet.  The only sounds you could hear were the children's ministry workers preparing rooms and stopping once in a while to grab a cup of coffee or greet another volunteer.

Gradually you could hear more sounds in the hallway.  Women's high heels on the tile floor, parents checking in at the registration desk and the worship team warming up for the first worship set.  The voices of children were beginning to fill the halls and soon you could see them running around the corner to their Sunday School class.  It was wonderful to see the Sunday School teachers stop to greet each child with a warm smile and a hug.

As the young woman watched the activity of the morning she noticed something different in the corner of the hallway, however.  It was a room that was different; a room that was quiet.  She moved closer  and was touched as she looked through the little window of the classroom.  The room was very serene and calming to look at.  In the corner was a large swing and on the floor were exercise mats.  A volunteer was sitting on the floor stroking the hair of a young boy and playing a little music box.  Another volunteer was across the room in a chair reading stories to a little girl in a wheelchair.  And lastly, there was a little girl standing by the door with a twinkle in her eye waiting for her turn to go to worship.  With excitement in her voice she looked at the volunteer and said, "We need to go to worship.  That is what we are here for."

By now the young woman was leaning over the half door watching the little family in the room.  She was touched by the love she saw the volunteers give the children and the children give the volunteers.  One of the volunteers looked up at the young woman and noticed the familiar look of a new onlooker.  The look of fear, the look of pity and the overwhelming feeling of respect for the volunteer that served in this classroom.  The volunteer had seen this look all too often and gently said to the young woman, "It is me that is blessed.  Every morning I serve in here, I am blessed and my perspective on life changes.  These children love the Lord in the purest way possible.  Many of them are limited by their immobility or inability to verbaly communicate.  They may have a disability but they do not have a disabled soul."

The young woman started to get tears in her eyes.  She looked at the volunteer and asked her what the children needed.  The volunteer said, "Just people to love them, teach them and give them the opportunity to worship.  Music is a universal language."

The young woman came into the room and started helping a child in a wheelchair.  They gathered the children and headed down the hallway to the worship room.  It was there that the young woman began to understand.  The young boy that was blind and deaf was beaming as the music began to play.  The little girl that played off to herself crawled up to the worship leader playing the guitar and laid her face on the guitar to feel the vibration.  The young girl with the walker started dancing to the music.

As the hour came to a close the young woman headed home with tears in her eyes.  She never made it to the sanctuary but she had been to worship, she had seen God at work, and she had been blessed.  That day she may have helped lead some children to worship, but they had taught her what it meant.