Creative Therapies: You Don't Want To Miss It!

It was a wonderfully busy summer full of great times with my family.  I hope all of you have made some great memories this summer as well.

I wanted to let you know about a great lady with a great opportunity.  I met Marti a couple of years ago when she brought her sweet daughter into my life and my heart.  I instantly connected with her sweet girl!  This year I am blessed to have her wonderful son in my life and I look forward to all of the adventures we will have.

Marti and I also instantly connected and became friends.  She has an amazing heart for people and especially people affected by a disability.  She is a gifted occupational therapist with tremendous compassion.  She is a gifted speaker with the ability to keep you engaged the entire time she is speaking.  She is a polished communicator that can impact the best of professionals, yet can speak to the heart of a parent in terms they have been exposed to.

Marti Smith, OTR/L will be offering a variety of courses in Austin October 18th and 19th.  I highly recommend you take a minute to look at the courses she is offering.  Her seminars are beneficial to physical therapists, occupational therapists, speech therapists, teachers, parents, special needs ministry workers and supportive friends.  

Below is the link to Creative Therapies.  If you end up going I would love to hear about it.  I know you will be blessed.

Blessings-

http://www.creativetherapies.com/PedsConference2013

Creative Therapies Pediatric Conference 2013

www.creativetherapies.com

Is Your Oxygen Mask On?

Today is one of those days when I feel like I tried to help everyone I could, but I still let some people down.  That is one of the hardest feelings for me to deal with, because I really can't stand letting anyone down.  I suppose most caregivers feel that way at one time or another.

In some ways I feel selfish to refer to myself as a "caregiver."  There are so many people in my life that are on 24-7.  Yet, I do have a lot of people that depend on me.  Several of my good friends are deeply involved in caregiving and they are on my mind tonight.

We absolutely don't have enough offered for individuals with physical, intellectual, and mental challenges.  I am pleased with how far we have come, but I also recognize that we have a long way to go.  When it comes to caregivers, I think we have a long way to go as well.

When it comes to caregiving, what always comes to mind for me first is the talk flight attendants give on airplanes, "Put the oxygen mask on yourself first, then assist those around you."  For a long time I didn't understand that, but over the years I have realized the importance of that statement.  You are not going to be of any help to anyone if you collapse, so get your oxygen mask on!

This summer I have done some soul-searching.  Am I doing what I need to do for me to be healthy?  Is my oxygen mask on?  The answer would be, "No!"  So this summer I have been working on a plan to get myself a little healthier physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually.  

Physical:  My mind cannot think about diet and exercise.  I have to think about healthy living instead.  I have to play a lot of mind games in order to do that.  I absolutely love the book, French Women Don't Get Fat.  It inspires me!  I am trying to eat what God made for the most part.  There are no lists of ingredients in the things He made, nor are there additives and preservatives.  To be more active, I am working in the garden a great deal.  It is peaceful and spiritual for me and gets me up and going.  I try to finish gardening with a walk and thank God for everything He has made.

Emotional: I try to avoid worrying by doing things I absolutely enjoy such as reading, gardening, taking pictures, scrap booking, talking to my daughters, and playing with my grandkids.

Intellectual:  I love to read, read, read!  I have read 2 1/2 books so far this summer and plan to read    a few more.

Spiritual:  I plan to visit a variety of churches this summer.  I need to remind myself that Christ's love  is bigger than the church I attend.  I have visited a prominent "seeker-friendly" church.  In the next couple of weeks I will visit a cowboy church and a charismatic church. I look forward to the new things I will be exposed to.

If you are a caregiver, and probably most of us are in one way or another, take a minute to put your oxygen mask on....whatever that is for you.  What makes you feel stronger?  What gives you rest?  What excites you?  When do you feel the most fulfilled?  What do you truly want to give the people you serve?  What do you need to do to be more effective?

I hope this gets you thinking because we all need a "time out" once in a while and a time to refuel.  It isn't selfish, it makes us better caregivers.

Walking Through Loss

     My heart is heavy tonight.  I feel like I am reliving my dad's death from ten years ago.  My dad's little brother died yesterday.  I miss him.  I miss my dad.  And I hurt for the family left behind.  

     One of the hardest things in life for me is knowing that someone I love is hurting and I can't do anything to "fix" it.  Even though I haven't seen my cousins and aunt in years, I love them with all my heart.

     At this point in my life I have experienced a number of losses:  three great-grandparents, four grandparents, my father-in-law, my dad, my brother-in-law, an uncle, a cousin, a brother, and numerous friends. Every loss is difficult and so many things will change, however, tonight I am reminded of all the things that have helped me.

1.  Know that the pain will subside, but it doesn't mean you love them less or miss them less.

2.  Don't avoid any emotion, walk right through the middle of it.  You will be better off in the long run.

3.  Do something that was meaningful to your loved one, whether it was buying a veteran lunch or      planting a tree.

4.  Spend time sharing memories with someone, maybe even look through pictures.  Yes, it will make you cry, but it may also be therapeutic.  

5.  Look through a loved one's drawer of treasures, thumb through their Bible, or do something else that would give you insight into your loved one that you wouldn't have otherwise.

6.  Think of something your loved one shared about someone else that was really positive.  Write or call that person and let them know what your loved one said.  It will make you both feel better.

7.  Allow yourself to be sad, but also allow yourself to be happy.

8.  Write about a few memories and share it with a family member.

9.  Read a book or watch a movie that was meaningful to your loved one.  Then think about ways you think the book or movie influenced their thinking.

10.  Turn to God for comfort.  God is the author of all things.  He understands life and He understands death.  Let His love surround you.

     Blessings to my family and friends that are hurting...

"Even the saddest things can become, once we have made peace with them, a source of wisdom and strength for the journey that still lies ahead." Frederick Buehner

My heart is heavy tonight for a number of friends that are going through difficult times.  They are not disabled by something physical, but by something emotional.  They are losing a loved one.  They are loosing a dream.  They are losing a spouse.  They will need to fight a battle they never dreamed they would have to fight.  They will need something to help them walk again.  They will need someone to tell them they can make it.  They will need someone to lean on.

To those of you that are suffering.  May the God of all comfort surround you with His love.  May you find your strength in His promises.

"Considering the result of their conduct, imitate their faith." Hebrews 13:7

     One of my favorite verses in the Bible is found in Hebrews 13:7.  It says,

Remember those who led you, who spoke the word of God to you; and considering the result of their conduct, imitate their faith.

     I usually use this verse in reference to the rich heritage I have from my christian ancestors.  I am so grateful for the spiritual truths and examples they imparted to me.  Joni Eareckson Tada has done that for me as well, since I was a teenager.  The story of her diving accident and resulting quadriplegia left a huge impression on me.  I learned so much about God's Word and His truth through her testimony.

     I just started reading Joni and Ken by Ken and Joni Eareckson Tada.  In the book they openly and honestly share the trials and challenges they have gone through in life and in marriage.  "The result of their conduct" makes me want to "imitate their faith."  Very few of us have gone through the challenges they have, but we all go through challenges in marriage and relationships.  I highly recommend their book to you.  It is so encouraging and inspiring and shows you that two amazing followers of Christ can be vulnerable and through it show the power of God.

     I am so grateful that Joni and Ken were willing to share their story in hopes of spurring the rest of us on.

The Grand Finale! WOW!

     It was a wonderful evening of celebration!  WOW!  We came together tonight with family and friends to celebrate God's goodness and the hard work of some amazing boys and girls!  I love you guys and thank God for everything you have done!
     Thank you for all of the hard work you did and the sacrifices you made to raise money for "Wheels for the World" so that a child will be able to go outside and play, be able to go to school and church, and hear about the love of Jesus.
     Thank you....

• Andrew, for collecting baked goods and selling them.  Thank you for putting on a play to raise money as well.  I would love to have seen the play!
• Arden, thank you for selling baked goods and for writing and illustrating a precious book.  I will cherish it forever!
• Ava, thank you for making the heart shaped crayons and selling them.  It makes me want to color!
• Ava,  thank you for making and selling the pictures to show love to someone else.
• Blake, thank you for sharing your artistic talents to raise money and for adding the extra touch of giving a lollipop with every purchase.
• Brady, thank you for the muffins you sold.  They got me through til breakfast!
• Claire, thank you for the baked goods and the great artwork on the magnets you made.  They were a hit!
• Isaiah, thank you for those Rice Krispie treats you made and sold (I bought quite a few!)
• Jack, the coffee from Starbucks was a very welcome addition to our market, as well as the juice and muffins!  A big thank you to all of your family for adding so generously to the funds!
• Karen, I think every three and four year-old at FFP thanks you for the goldfish at the end of the day!
• Samuel, you are quite a salesman!  Thank you for the personalized tour of your home at the garage sale!
• Savannah, your cards and pencils were created and sold with love.  Thank you!
• Thomas, you truly have sweat equity in the money you raised.  Thank you for cleaning pools, houses, and yards to help out our friends in need.
• Tripp, thank you for all of the golf ball hunts you went on to sell and raise money to get another wheelchair.  Awesome!
• Will, thank you for the cupcakes that were almost too pretty to eat!  Also, please thank your family for their generous contribution!
• Carol, my sister-in-law, thank you for the hours and resources you put into making bookmarks to sell.  You have been so supportive!
• Kim, thank you for helping with all of the projects and then bringing in another wheelchair to finish it off.  You are priceless!

I want to mention a special thanks to Jabe Cochren and his mother Christie, our guest speaker tonight.  Jabe is an inspiration to all of us.  He was born with spina-bifida and continually amazes me with his faith and determination.

I want to thank Kay and Gail from the Joni and Friends staff in San Antonio for joining us tonight, inspiring us and giving the kids wonderful gifts of appreciation.

I want to thank the parents, Tabitha, Susan, Meg, Tiffany, and Angela that provided the cake, decorations, and balloons for tonight.

Bill, thank you for always helping me, no matter what event is going on.  You truly are a servant leader!  I love you so much.

Steffani, thank you for casting the dream for First Foundation, for serving alongside me, and for loving on so many precious children.

And God, well you never cease to amaze.  Thank you for everything you teach me through children and for holding my hand every step of this journey we are on.

And did I mention....those fabulous children in the Bridge Class raised $2,550 for 17 wheelchairs!!!

Thank you for all of the sacrifices you have made!  I love you guys so much!!

Day 20: Casting Vision in Chapel

     On Tuesday the kids and I had an opportunity to lead chapel.  The director of our school, Steffani Wilkins, asked us to share about "The Butterfly Effect" and our "Wheels for the World" project.  The kids were very excited when I told them we were going to be doing it and were even more excited on Tuesday.

     We started off with introductions.  Mrs. Wilkins introduced me and then I introduced the kids.  The kids asked me if they were going to be able to take a bow so of course I let them right off the bat.  The kids sat down and then I introduced, "Smiley."  Smiley is my teaching assistant during our special needs unit.  

     I told the kids that Smiley is a special wheelchair because it is one that God brought to me.  I had used an adult chair with the kids for five years and then it became unavailable to me.  I prayed over a summer that God would bring me a wheelchair and I would love to have a child's wheelchair.  I knew I could get a wheelchair through different connections, but then I would be worried that I was using one a child could use.  So I prayed all summer that God would deliver one to me and then I would know it was fine to use.  

     One day I had a knock on my door and it was our copier repair man.  He leaned into the classroom and said, "I hear you might want a child's wheelchair."  I instantly had goosebumps on my arms and tears in my eyes.  I was so excited and loved that it even had a happy face on it!  Gene, our repair man, had been cleaning out storage for a ministry and had it all loaded on a truck.  He had stopped by the school.  Mrs. Wilkins asked him what he was doing and asked what he was getting rid of.  When she heard about the wheelchair she instantly thought of me.  So, Smiley is my gift from God, delivered by Gene.

     For chapel it was a little tricky to come up with a way to explain "The Butterfly Effect" and everything you have shared and developed with your students over a month in 20 minutes.   It also makes it challenging when the kids are only 3 to 5 years old, but we gave it our best shot.

     I held up a little paper fan and started fanning myself.  I told them that I love fans (especially the older I get).  The fan moves molecules (or little bubbles) of air and they in turn bump into more bubbles of air, and they in turn bump into more bubbles of air.  I asked if anyone could feel it and they said no.

Then I brought out a small, but larger fan and turned it on.  I asked how many kids could feel that one and a few could.  We talked about how the fan could move more bubbles of air because the blades were bigger and there was power behind it.  Then I brought a big workshop fan out and turned it on.  All of the kids could feel it now!  This fan was bigger and more powerful and could move more molecules of air!

    I told the kids that I have been teaching a month long unit on disabilities to my kids for the last five years.  A disability means someone can't do something or they have to do it differently than most people do.  I also shared with them about kids around the world that don't have access to a wheelchair and have to stay in bed all the time.  They often can't go to school, to church, or even outside.  It has been on my heart to do something about it so every year we raised enough money for one wheelchair.

     One night God woke me up in the middle of the night and told me that I needed to make the fundraising efforts bigger.  I needed to get the parents to understand what we were doing and then they would help their kids understand.  So last year I met with the parents.  I didn't do the greatest job casting vision, but God totally covered for me.  Anyway, the kids did a great job last year and they have continued the dream this year.  All of the kids came up with great ideas for raising money.

     I shared with the kids that God also gave me a book, The Butterfly Effect by Andy Andrews.  In the book it explains the theory that when a butterfly flaps its wings it moves molecules of air, which moves more molecules of air, which moves more molecules of air which can eventually cause an earthquake on the other side of the world.  I said I don't know if that is true, but I do know that a lot can happen from just one little butterfly.

     I had all of my children share what they did to raise money for wheelchairs.  They were all very creative and very sacrificial.  I will share those ideas in another post.  I had the children put a butterfly on a tree after they shared what they did.  I also put up a butterfly for me, because I had shared the idea with the parents.  I told the kids that it didn't start with me, however.  A good friend had shared about "Wheels for the World" with me, so I put up a butterfly for her.  I shared that if it hadn't been for Joni Eareckson Tada, the ministry wouldn't exist, so I put up a butterfly for her.  Someone had told Joni about the need before that.....and then there are the people that collect the wheelchairs, the people that refurbish the wheelchairs, the people that deliver the wheelchairs around the world, and the physical therapists that fit the wheelchairs.  We wouldn't be able to put up enough butterflies.  We can't trace back all of the people involved.  The more people involved and the more power behind it, the more that can happen.  In fact, two of my students took their efforts farther and close to $1,000 by sharing with their extended families!

     On the walls of our school we started with one butterfly and now look at them.  There is a butterfly for each dollar raised.  There are not just hundreds of butterflies, but there are thousands because of what 15 kids did.  That is amazing!  I shared with the kids that they are just one little butterfly, but they can start off a butterfly effect that makes an enormous difference.  

     I shared the verse from John 13:34, "A new command I give you; Love one another.  As I have loved you so must you love one another."  We are all called to love and serve one another, no matter what our abilities or disabilities are.  We closed with prayer and gave thanks for the ability to walk, run and play, to see, to hear, and to learn.  May we have compassion and love for each other no matter what our challenges may be and may God be honored and glorified in all that we do.  Amen.

Day 19: Looking Back

    We had our last visit with Joni Eareckson Tada through DVD.  She thanked the kids for partnering with her on the "Wheels For the World" project and summarized all the things the kids had learned.  She concluded by introducing the kids to another one of my heroes, Nick Vujicic.  Nick was born without legs or arms.  He has been an inspiration to children, young people, and adults around the world.

     It has been a powerful month and I hope the children have been impacted for a lifetime.  They have learned how precisely they were made by God, that their weaknesses can demonstrate the power of God, they have worked hard and sacrificed to help children in need, and they have learned to appreciate each other a little more.

     Stay with me.  We have a lot of celebrating to do this week!

Days 17 and 18: Learning About Intellectual and Emotional Challenges

      We are almost finished with our "How To Be a Friend To Someone With a Disability" curriculum based on Joni Eareckson Tada's book, "On a Roll For Jesus."  It is always a highlight of my school year and I am a little sad when we are finished.  There is always so much to talk about and I wish I could introduce the children to so many more people.  It is similar to when you go to Europe and come back so excited about the journey.  You are anxious to share the pictures with all of your friends.  There just aren't enough words to express all of the experiences and emotions, however.  All I do know is the kids have changed and so have I.

     In one of Joni's DVD clips she talked about "Invisible Disabilities," one of them can be autism.  The children had a lot of questions about autism.  I shared with them some characteristic behaviors and struggles.  It was interesting because some of them started sharing struggles about each other in a way that could be hurtful.  I thought well I could end the conversation or teach from it. So I taught from it.  We openly shared our challenges and what we do to handle them and then we talked about how to encourage one another and cheer each other on.  From that discussion they know they love each other.

     One of the little boys in my class is Will and Will has such a huge heart for everyone in the class and if you struggle at all, he has an even bigger heart.  He always adds a lot of grace to a conversation.  For a little guy he also has wisdom regarding how to encourage someone.  Will has quietly and confidently raised money for the wheelchair and his family has been a huge part of it.

     

Day 15: Trusting God

     Today we had one of my heroes and dear friends come visit our classroom as a "powerful person."  She is letting God show His power through her challenge.  She is one of our teachers and was in a tragic car accident last fall.  I am so grateful that her life was spared, but she has had some challenges that have altered her life in many ways.  Stephanie, however, has shown her trust in God over and over again.

     When Stephanie came to our class she shared a little bit about the accident, but quickly moved to sharing about the damage done to her eye during the impact.  I can't fully explain the challenges she has faced, but dizziness, double vision, lack of balance, and challenges in the ability to read are a few of them.  She had to face the fears of "What if this never gets better?" and "What if this permanently alters my life?"

     BUT Stephanie is a tremendous woman of faith.  She trusts God with every ounce of her being.  She's honest about her fears, but more than willing to let God use any circumstances He needs to bring glory to Himself.  I am proud of Stephanie and her willingness to walk any road God asks of her.

     Stephanie also shared a sad moment when a child looked at her with her eye patch on and laughed at her.  Even though the experience was hard for her she decided to invest in the little boy's life by sharing that it hurt her feelings and why.  She cared enough for him to understand that we need to encourage those with a disability and never make fun of their situation.  I would imagine that made an impact on the little boy, one that he won't forget very soon.

     We never know what challenge may come our way in a matter of moments.  My hope is that my students will remember the lessons that Stephanie shared with them.  I also hope they will remember the hope and faith she lives by. 

     Thank you for sharing your heart and your faith with us, Stephanie.  My prayer is that God's healing will come soon if that is His plan for you, but mostly I pray, that God's goodness and love will be evident to those around you.

Day 16: Take a Chance, Take a Moment, Take a Step of Faith

     Today I wasn't at school and I kept wondering what my students were doing and talking about.  They always have some pretty amazing things to share with me.  Instead, I needed to take a family member to have an iron infusion which took about 7 hours total.  It was hard to leave her while the infusion took place.  I ran a few errands, but found myself thinking about all of the people sitting in the same room with her while their chemotherapy or radiation was being pumped in.  So much of their life and abilities are on the line and I take mine so for granted.

     I always find it interesting that people can't take the step of faith to believe in Christ's love for them, the sacrifices He made, and the forgiveness He offers us.  Yet, we all walk in faith every day.  We have faith that we won't get the diagnosis of cancer.  I have lost 3 grandparents to cancer, as well as my father and my brother.  My grandmother and mother survived cancer.  I know my life could change in an afternoon, but I also walk securely in my faith in Jesus Christ.

     On Sunday our pastor shared the expression, YOLO.  You Only Live Once.  I know I will live more than once, but I do need to live this life to the fullest so I can rejoice that I did when I get to heaven one day.  

     Tomorrow, take a chance.  Encourage someone that is challenged with a disability or disease.  Take a moment to thank God for your health and take a step of faith and accept Christ's great love for you.

Day 14: Tooth Fairy Money

     Yesterday my students were able to experience what it would be like to be completely blind so today I wanted them to experience what it would be like to have partial vision.  I had the children hold up a piece of wax paper.  With wax paper you can seen differences between light and dark colors, as well as where windows are for example.  They could see if there are patches of light coming into a room.  Then the children held up a piece of wax paper with a hole punch out of it.  This vision represents tunnel vision.  They enjoyed looking around the room and at each other.  Later I blindfolded the children and they tried writing their names.  I found it interesting that almost all of the children wanted to correct their mistakes and were uncomfortable with them when they took their blindfolds off.

     We learned some tips from Joni Eareckson Tada on "How To Be a Friend to Someone With a Visual Impairment."  The kids all thought it was funny when I yelled, "You don't need to yell at someone with a visual impairment!"  I told them how funny we all are when we try to speak loudly to anyone with an impairment, no matter what it is.

     In terms of powerful people, I loved introducing them to Stevie Wonder.  What an incredible musician he is.  In his tribute to Michael Jackson he talked about how great God is and always is.

     We also talked about Helen Keller.  I showed them a clip from "The Miracle Worker" and Helen was throwing tantrums because she was so frustrated.  The kid's eyes got huge when I explained about how she learned to communicate by Anne Sullivan signing into the palm of her hand.  They were amazed by the incredible lives that both Stevie and Helen have lived.

     AND just when I think the money will start slowing down, they bring in bags full of money.  It may drive them crazy to not know the total number of wheelchairs, but it sure makes it more fun!!  They will be very surprised at the end!  One of my kids, Andrew, has had a personal goal of raising enough money by himself for one wheelchair and he met that goal yesterday.  I am so proud of him and love the look he has on his face for reaching the goal.  And today, I smile every time I think about Claire.

She was terrified to loose her first tooth, but bravely handled it.  Today she lost her second tooth.  She wasn't afraid anymore and looked up at me during "Circle Time" and said, "I know what I am going to do with the tooth fairy money.  I am going to give it for the wheelchair!"  Claire didn't say it out of obligation, but with great excitement in her eyes!

     The kids were excited when I told them we are going to lead chapel next month.  They already had wonderful ideas on how to communicate the butterfly effect to three year-olds.

Day 13: The Trust Walk

     This week we are learning about "How to Be a Friend to Someone With a Visual Impairment."  We started off our morning with a trust walk.  I had eight children grab a partner.  One of the children in each pair would be blindfolded and the other one would be the helper or guide.  I am always amazed by how confidently the children that are blindfolded walk down the hall, completely secure in knowing their friend is going to watch out for them.  I am also amazed at how well the children watch out for each other.  When we arrived at the classroom, I had the children switch roles and go out for a trust walk again.  I then took a group of six out.

     During our "Circle Time" we talked about the trust walk.  I asked them which role they enjoyed the most.  It was pretty much split down the middle.  The amazing thing is that almost all of the children that said they enjoyed being blind the most stated that they liked how kind their partner was to them.  They like being taken care of.  When I asked the kids that liked being the guide the most, they all shared that they like taking care of someone and being kind to them.  I am continually amazed at their level of compassion.

     More money and butterflies came in for our fundraiser.  The butterflies are now down both sides of the hallway.  They have reached 10 wheelchairs.  I will wait to reveal any more until we have our celebration in April.  They will be so excited!!

The Cocoon

     There are so many great analogies that go along with butterflies, but this is one of my favorites.  I have had my share of struggles through life, but this story gave me a new perspective and I thought I would share it with you.  I don't have the author's name, but I am very appreciative.


 The Cocoon   
         
A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.

One day a small opening appeared, he sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. 

Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no farther. Then the man decided to help the butterfly, so he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon.

The butterfly then emerged easily. 

But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.

Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. 

It never was able to fly.

What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were God's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If God allowed us to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what we could have been.

And we could never fly.

In your times of trial and tribulation, remember that we are praying for you, and in the end The Lord has a purpose for all of this. So one day you can fly with us...

TO HEAVEN

Day 12: Celebrating Easter

     Today we took a little rest from all of the wonderful fundraising to celebrate Easter.  We had an Easter egg hunt, played with some wonderful sparkly playdough, made an Easter bunny, and decorated sugar cookies.  

     Later we sat down for "Circle Time" and talked about what is really important about Easter.  It isn't the meal, the Easter eggs or baskets, the new Sunday clothes, or even gathering with friends.  It is about the sacrifice Jesus made on our behalf.  He was ridiculed, spat on, and hung on a cross to take the punishment for our sins.  Three days later He rose from the grave and ascended into heaven.  Through

His death and resurrection and our acceptance of this precious gift, we have new life.

     Happy Easter, everyone!

                                                               

Day 11: Braille in Big Numbers!

     It has been quite an amazing day!  We started the day off with numerous baggies of money and butterflies coming into the room.  The kids were so excited as they shared how much money they had collected from the market days.  We excitedly did another "happy dance" and thanked God for another wheelchair.

     During our "Circle Time" I shared with the kids about blindness.  They had numerous questions as they thought about what it would be like to be blind.  I shared with them about a precious friend of mine that was born without eyes and how he gets to know people by feeling their faces.  They were all gracious enough to line up and let me feel their faces to see if I could figure out who they were.  I didn't do as well as last year (too many boys with short hair cuts :).  We started talking about Braille and I gave each of them a card with the Braille alphabet on it.  Then I showed them one book of the Bible in Braille which is quite impressive.  They loved closing their eyes and feeling the pages.  We talked about all of the places you can find Braille now, such as on signs, bandage boxes, and even some Starbucks cards. 

     This morning we listened to a clip from Joni Eareckson Tada.  She shared about how the wheelchairs are picked up and taken to correctional facilities and rebuilt.  My favorite story is hearing about the inmates working on the wheelchairs and hoping not to be released until they finish rebuilding them.  What a powerful story!

     We hung hundreds of butterflies down the hallway today.  I love hearing the younger kids as they look down the hallway and gasp at the number of butterflies on the walls.  I am excited because our director asked if my class would lead a chapel time and share with the younger children about what we are doing.  I can't wait to tell my kids tomorrow.  They will be so excited!

     Tonight I can't stop thinking about my sweet Jack.  He has worked so hard raising money for the wheelchairs and with such excitement and compassion.  He has raised over $500 so far and I know he has another large sum coming in.  Jack has worked hard by selling coffee, juice, and muffins, but he has also been diligent to share with people about "Wheels for the World." Jack has a wonderful circle of family and friends that are jumping in to support both Jack and this wonderful cause.  This is how the butterfly effect works.  A butterfly flaps its wings which move molecules.  Those molecules then bump into other molecules which bump into other molecules and the effect gets bigger and bigger.  I bumped into my students by telling them about people with disabilities and the kids that need wheelchairs.  They were touched and raised money and they shared with other people and they were touched and donated money and the effect continues on as more and more people get involved and effect change.  The effect and possibilities are endless!  In addition, there is a long line of people before me that started the butterfly effect.  It would almost be impossible to determine where the effect started. As Andy Andrews said in his book, The Butterfly Effect, "what we do matters."

     Right now we are halfway through our unit and the kids have raised enough money for 10 wheelchairs!!  I can hardly believe it!  The butterfly effect is growing by the minute and 10 precious children will be able to have the gift of mobility because of what 15 kids have done.

     

Day 10: WOW!

  Today was the second day of our "Wheels for the World" market.  The kids enthusiasm and excitement is stronger than ever!  It makes me laugh because a couple of the kids kept getting upset with their parents for giving change back to customers.  They told their parents to quit giving the wheelchair money away!!

    One of my students had spent a great deal of time writing and publishing a story to sell.  She was so proud to tell me that she had done it all by herself and I am proud of her momma for letting her do it by herself and cheering her on each step of the way.  I am always blessed by watching my students grow in their understanding of people, disabilities, compassion and sacrifice during this unit and this little girl has grown so much.  A few days ago her mom shared the following with me through e-mail....

     I was so happy that Arden sat in the wheelchair today!  She had been adamant that she would not ride in the wheelchair.  She was very uncomfortable with the idea.  She didn't seem to take issue with the wheelchair, but she told me; "I am NOT riding in it!  My legs work fine!"  This conversation went on for several weeks leading up to today.  Today she told me, "Oh, I was the line leader today and I rode in the wheelchair!"  I asked her, "Oh... how was that?"  "It was really fun!  Mrs. Boggess pushed me really fast!"  I told her I was proud of her for trying something different.  

     It is amazing to see how powerful a tool the wheelchair is.  It keeps down a powerful wall that many adults have.  Children are curious and have so many questions.  If we answer those questions and expose them to a variety of people and situations, they will stay compassionate rather than afraid.  I am proud of sweet Arden as she has been willing to learn and grow through this unit.

     After our market, we had a good friend of mine come visit.  Toni is an interpreter for our church.  She did a beautiful job of connecting with the children and helping them understand people with hearing impairments.  She started off by asking them what they knew about people who cannot hear.  She corrected some of their thinking and then helped them understand children with hearing impairments are much like them.  Toni taught them a variety of signs and told them a familiar children's story through sign.  The kids were very excited as they realized what the story was.  Toni signed a few familiar children's songs and then completed our time by joining in one of our "happy dances" for another wheelchair.  The kids have now raised over $1,000 which equates to over 6 wheelchairs!  God is so good!

Day 9: How the Ear Works

     I am a little behind on my posts because so much has happened in the last couple of days!  I am so excited for the kids, because they are excited!  The market has gone really well.  The kids sold a variety of muffins, cookies, cupcakes, Rice Krispie treats, goldfish and coffee.  They also sold pictures, notecards, pencils, magnets, used books, and bookmarks.  I have loved watching their personalities emerge through this.  We have a variety of marketers, entrepreneurs, and philanthropists in our class!

     In class today we watched a clip off of You-tube on how the ear works.  I didn't think they would be that interested, but they kept wanting to watch more.  Most of the boys were saying, "Cool!" and the girls were saying, "Oooo gross!'  They all wanted to watch more though and were amazed by how the ear captures sound and processes it.

     I don't know how many wheelchairs they have raised enough money for yet, but the money is pouring in!  I keep picturing a child with a huge smile on their face, because they will be able to go to school, or church, or be out with friends because they finally have a wheelchair.  I am so grateful for all of the hard work the kids have done!

Day 8: Another "Happy Dance"

     We are on Day 8 of our unit on "How to Be a Friend to Someone with a Disability" based on Joni Eareckson Tada's On a Roll For Jesus curriculum.  This week we are talking about hearing impairment.  Today I showed them four different hearing aids and how they have become smaller and less noticeable.  Most of the kids started talking about their grandparents and how they can't hear well and some wear hearing aids.  I shared some tips with them on how to communicate effectively with their grandparents and will be sending a handout home for them to share with their parents.  We also watched a few video clips about cochlear implants and how exciting it is when someone is able to hear for the first time.

     The kids have loved learning sign language.  I am always amazed by how quickly they can learn.  In just 3 days they have learned 60 different signs.

     One of the kids brought in $80 she had raised by selling cupcakes.  We were all able to do our second "happy dance"....two wheelchairs and counting :)

Day 7: God Can Use Our Abilities and Disabilities

     Today we talked about when Jesus healed a little boy that was deaf.  The little boy was overjoyed to be able to hear.  I asked the children if Jesus heals everyone that is deaf and they said yes.  We had a great discussion about how sometimes God heals people and sometimes God has another plan and doesn't heal the disability.  God can use our abilities and disabilities in powerful ways.  We talked about a variety of people and the tremendous ministries they have and often times, because their disability is a platform from which they can share.

     Some of the kids brought in money they had earned for the wheelchair today.  They love watching the flight of butterflies grow down the hallway as they put one up for every dollar earned.  They have all been working on their crafts and goodies for the sale on Thursday and Friday.  Their enthusiasm and joy in raising funds has been a blessing to watch.

Day 6: Our First Happy Dance :)

     It was great being back with my little buddies today!  As they came in they handed me bag after bag of cash and butterflies with huge smiles on their faces.  As I shared before, some of them sold baked goods, but others cleaned pools, emptied their piggy banks, sold retrieved golf balls, sold lemonade, did chores, entertained younger siblings, and shared with Grandma about children that need wheelchairs.  They were excited to see the butterflies stretching down the hallway from all of their fundraising efforts.

     Today we started our week on "How to Be a Friend to Someone With a Hearing Impairment."  We were able to spend time with our sweet friend Joni.  She shared with us about how wheelchairs are collected from hospitals and people's attics or wherever they may be stored.  The wheelchairs are then sent to correctional institutions to be refurbished before they are distributed around the world.  We were also able to watch some clips from Joni and Friends Kids' Corner.  Joni taught us about how to be respectful when we are curious about a disability.

     At the end of our "Circle Time" we were able to have our first "happy dance," because we have raised enough money for our first wheelchair!

Back To School Tomorrow...

     I wouldn't be honest if I didn't say I am a little disappointed spring break is over.  I have had so much fun with my grandchildren and my brother.  I have loved getting up when I want to, getting out of my PJ's when I want to, and especially going to bed as late as I want to.  It is always nice to have a little down time!

     Tonight I am excited that I will be heading back to school in a few hours though.  I have been looking through pictures my students have sent me over break and that brings joy to my soul!  They have been working hard crafting, cooking, and selling to raise money for the wheelchairs.  They will be so excited when they bring in their ziplock bags of money tomorrow morning and I will be excited for them.  More than that, I am excited for the children that will be able to get around soon because of their sacrifices.

     Yesterday I was able to step back in time for an hour.  A friend's niece came over to talk about Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.  My friend knew that I had some things to share with her about Dr. King and the impact he made on my dad, and then me.  I shared with her the changes that have occurred starting with my great-great grandfather who served in the Civil War down to my grandchildren whose first president is black.  I wish more people could put political views aside and appreciate all that it means.  We have come a long way.

     When my dad met Dr. King many years ago, he affected the course of my dad's life to serve in the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission.  Then, dad helped set the course of my life as he became involved in the Americans with Disabilities Act and now I serve special needs families.  In terms of change,  my students and grandchildren can go to a park that accommodates children with all kinds of disabilities and you can barely see it, because it is so natural.  Once again, we have come a long way.

     I am so grateful for all of the people that have sacrificed along the way from Abraham Lincoln to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. to Joni Eareckson Tada.  They sacrificed so that things might be different someday and thankfully they are.  Change can happen and each one of us can make a difference!

Highlights of Spring Break

     It has been a wonderful spring break so far.  I haven't accomplished anything on my chore list and maybe that is part of why it has been wonderful :)  On the other hand, I have been able to do so much of what is important to me.  

     I started off the week by going on a road trip with my daughter and granddaughter.  While my daughter was visiting friends, my granddaughter and I visited a very special aunt and uncle and for her, great-great aunt and great-great uncle.  They are both special to me and have been there for me throughout my life, especially when I lost my dad.  

     My uncle continues to inspire me.  He has had physical challenges all of his life, but it never stops him.  It is difficult and painful to walk, but he continues to work hard to provide for his family and never complains.  He continually adjusts his life to make it work.  I admire him and look up to him.

     I came back home to a visit with my brother, Mark.  He is another person in my life that I greatly admire.  All of us have challenges of one kind or another and if I had to say Mark had one at all it would be Mark's sense of time.  He has a slower pace than a lot of us, but it is also a gift that I have seen God powerfully use throughout his life.  Very few people in this world have more time, patience, and compassion than Mark does.  He has served the children living in children's homes by giving the time they needed to know they are important and valued.  He has served the mentally ill for over ten years by encouraging, coaching, educating, and training them to build lives and careers.  He has spent endless hours rebuilding computers to give to those he serves so they can have the tools they need to build lives and careers.  When it comes to the people he loves, Mark has endless hours to serve with a servant's heart and to listen to any trials you may be going through.  I know for me, Mark is like sitting on a deserted island and watching the waves slowly come in and out.  He has a very calming, loving spirit about him and if he was a person that hurried, he probably wouldn't have these qualities.

     On Wednesday, I met my students at the "Play for All" park in Round Rock, Texas.  As a teacher I had hoped to have some time to sit the kids down and point out all of the accommodations there are for children with special needs.  The beautiful thing is that I couldn't.  There were so many people there for spring break and the kids are off running and playing as they should be.  I love that they may not notice the accommodations because they are natural part of the park.  On Monday I will point out the accommodations through photographs.  I am sure they will come up with some different ones than I noticed.

     One of the highlights for the week has been the e-mails and texts I have received about the fundraising projects the kids are pursuing.  They are so excited about the cookies and cupcakes they have sold.  I know we have over  $200 now.  That is exciting!

Day 5: Amazing People

     The kids were so excited when a beautiful dog walked through the door of our classroom this morning.  Our special guest was a young woman that has had diabetes since she was a young child.  Three years ago she received a dog that is trained to alert her whenever her blood sugar is too low.  Apparently the dog will start whining and nudging her until she checks her blood sugar.  I asked her if the dog is always right and she shared that she has learned to never doubt her.

     Beth shared that service dogs are used for a variety of situations.  People that have diabetes, seizures, can't walk, or blind are using service dogs.  She shared that they are now training them to detect cancer with their incredible sense of smell.  Beth shared how she gained freedom by having her dog.  She knows that her dog will watch out for her and take care of her.

     After Beth left I told the kids that I wanted to introduce them to another amazing person.  I grabbed my guitar and started gently strumming the guitar while I talked to them.  I shared about a young man that was created with a love for music and had a great deal of talent, but he was born without arms.  He wanted to play the guitar, but how could he?  I am holding the guitar with one hand and strumming it with the other.  I asked them if they thought he was ever able to play.  The children said he would never be able to.  I shared he actually was able to, but how?  Finally, one of the kids faces lit up and she said he must have played it with his feet.  I set the guitar on the ground and tried to strum it with my toes.  I then played one of Tony Melendez's CD's for the kids and they were amazed.  I shared how talented Tony is and how he travels around the world playing beautiful music and telling people about Jesus.   The kids all started clapping for Tony and asked if they could meet him.  I wish I could have Tony visit, but we did enjoy his music!

     Later we watched some clips from Joni and Friends Kid's Corner.  The kids love them so much.  Today they were pleading to watch some more and said they would hurry to get their math and phonics lessons done so we would have time. We watched a clip called, "Invisible Disabilities."  In it a young lady shared about diabetes and how we need to be supportive of friends that have invisible disabilities.We also learned about not being afraid to get close to someone with a disability and to give eye contact.
     Next week the kids and I will be on spring break and they have plans to work on all kinds of projects.  We will have our "market" at school the week after break to raise money.  The kids were all excited to start working on their project and were even getting their siblings involved.  Now, Mrs. Boggess needs to get busy as well!

Day 4: Pictures and Lollipops

     One of my students proudly brought in a ziplock bag with cash and paper butterflies mixed together.  He was so excited to tell me about the money and how he had earned it.  I have to say the creative marketer has emerged in our classroom :)  He colored pictures and sold them for a dollar and for their purchase, he gave them a lollipop for free!  I love the way kids think!

     I started off "Circle Time" by reading from On a Roll for Jesus by Joni Eareckson Tada.  She has a quiz about myths regarding people with disabilities.  Some of the myths are that people with disabilities only like to be with other people with disabilities, you can catch a disability from another person and that a person in a wheelchair has to always be in a wheelchair.  I have to say the kids did very well on the quiz.  They probably did better than most adults.

     Later we watched a DVD from Joni's Kids Corner.  She has great lessons on a variety of disabilities.  You can visit Kid's Corner at http://www.joniandfriends.org/kids-corner.  

    We had a great time popping wheelies in the wheelchair as we went to lunch and to recess.  I told the children that tomorrow we will  meet two amazing guests and they can't wait to find out who they are....

Day 3: One of Those Amazing Days!

     I have been teaching for 18 years now, ten as a homeschooling mom and eight as a preschool teacher.  As a teacher you have some days that are AMAZING and then you have some days that well, aren't so amazing.  Almost always though, I ask myself on the way home, Did I make any sense today?  Was I able to make a difference in someone's life?  Were today's lessons meaningful?
     Well, today was special.  I came home to a wonderful e-mail...

I also wanted to let you know that on the way home from school, _____ said he needed to go home and do chores so he could earn money for a child's wheelchair.  He came home and cleaned the playroom (which is no easy task in my house), his room (under his bed and dressers), he cleaned up trash in our yard and did recycling.  He is very excited about this project! :)

     For the teacher part of me this is like getting a home run, not due to anything on my part, but I get to be in the stands watching the home runs God is hitting.  I just get to be there and that is exciting!  Don't you agree that a five year-old coming home from school acting this way has to be an act of God!
     As a momma, it can be hard to watch your child work so hard, but I can already picture my sweet boy's face tomorrow at Circle Time proudly handing me the money he earned and telling me how he did it.  It already brings a smile to my face :)  We already have 59 butterflies (one for every dollar raised) going down our hallway and tomorrow, my sweet boy will proudly be part of it.  That makes my whole year as a teacher!
     I had another highlight today that makes me smile.  I was sharing with the children, How to be a Friend to Someone with a Physical Disability from Joni Eareckson Tada's book, On a Roll for Jesus!
She gives very helpful suggestions on how to treat someone in a wheelchair with respect.  One of the suggestions is, Look past the wheelchair or whatever physical disability the person has.  It is okay to look at the individual.  Later in the morning I asked the children to recall the suggestions and one of my student's interpretation of that suggestion was, Don't stare at someone's boo-boo's!
     The student that made this comment has one of the biggest hearts in the world.  He is a good friend.  He is compassionate.  He is self-sacrificing.  He has remnants of childlike speech and looked up so innocently and said, Don't stare at someone's boo-boo's!  It may not be politically correct to say it this way, but I love the refreshing simplicity of a child's perspective.  An adult would need a long politically correct explanation, but a child just says what is on their mind.  I think I have the best job in the world (including the days I get sneezed on!)

Day 2: Mephishobeth, King David, and Painting With Our Teeth

     We started our morning off with some great worship songs and then went straight into our Bible lesson for the day.  We read a paraphrase of the story of Mephibosheth in 2 Samuel 4:4, 9:1-13.  It is a powerful story about how Mephibosheth was mistreated and denied his right to be king because of his disability.  People mistreated him which led to more people mistreating him, which led to even more people.  When King David realized what was happening he befriended Mephibosheth and gave him the land and respect that was rightfully his.  When King David extended kindness and invited him to eat at his table, people started to change.  More and more people started extending kindness to Mephiboseth.  This story led to a great conversation with the children about bullies and how they can  lead others to mistreat people.  The children realized that they can change how someone is treated by the example they set.  The children came up with great examples and applications and were moved by the story.

     We followed up with our memory verse for the week:  A new command I give you; Love one another.  As I have loved you so must you love one another. John 13:34

     After our morning "Circle Time" we had the opportunity to paint the way Joni does...with our teeth!  As the children came to the table, they commented on how easy this was going to be and they were very shocked when they found out otherwise.  After the children completed their paintings, I showed them two paintings Joni has done and all of their mouths dropped.  They were amazed by her talent!  We concluded our lessons for the day by reading:

• Don't Call Me Special...A First Look at Disabilities by Pat Thomas
• You've Got a Friend by Joni Eareckson Tada

     Tomorrow we will learn specific ways we can be a kind friend to someone with a physical disability.  I am so thankful for the "On a Roll for Jesus!" program Joni wrote.  It is such a great framework for this unit.

Blessings-

Deana

     

Day 1 - Meeting Joni

     Today was the first official day of our special needs unit.  The kids were able to meet Joni Eareckson Tada through a DVD this morning.  They were all captivated as they listened to her share her story about her diving accident at 17 that left her paralyzed.  They all felt down the bones in their necks as she explained what happened to her spinal cord.  Joni shared about how discouraged she was, but how christian friends encouraged her, prayed for her, and read God's word to her.  Even when you are five you can't help but feel a connection to Joni because she shares so openly from her heart and you know that her faith in God and passion to serve Him is real.

     Joni shared the story of The Good Samaritan.  The story is such a good example of how we often respond to those in need.  Joni also introduced the children to a teenager and a child that were blessed by the ministry of "Wheels for the World" and were given a wheelchair.

     The children were excited about meeting my teaching assistant, which is a child's wheelchair.  None of them were apprehensive at all and wanted to be the first one to ride in the wheelchair.  Usually the children take awhile to feel comfortable, but the children this year wanted to give the wheelchair a name and identity.  Due to the happy face patch on the back of the chair, they named it "Smiley."

     We read a variety of books today about physical disabilities and colored a couple of coloring pages that will go in a special memory book at the end of the unit.

     On the playground and in the hallway a number of children's heads turned when the tiny wheelchair went by.  They were instantly concerned about the child riding in it.  It gave us a great opportunity to share about what we are learning.

     It was exciting to have $55 come in to kick off our fund-raising efforts, but it was even more exciting to hear the children's questions.  They are so full of questions and even better, compassion.  I would love to share more, but I better get some sleep.  Thanks for reading....

Deana

Books we read today:

Someone Special Just Like You by Tricia Brown

We Are All Alike We are All Different by Cheltenham Elem. School Kindergartners

Bebe and Me by Sophie McDow

Some Kids Use Wheelchairs by Lola M. Schaefer

Some Kids Use Braces by Lola M. Schaefer

God Created Us With a Plan and a Purpose

     Monday we will officially start our month long journey, "How to Be a Friend to Someone with a Disability."  It is often hard to know where to start, but yesterday we laid the foundation by starting with God Himself.

     We kicked off our unit by talking about how wonderfully God created each of us!  God had a plan when He made us and God has a wonderful plan for our lives, both present and future.  We talked about the following verses, the truth about our creation and how God truly cares for us.  On Monday we will talk about how this is true for ALL of the people God has created.

• So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.  Genesis 1:26-28
• For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb.  Psalm 139:12-14
• And even the very hairs on your head are all numbered.  Matthew 10:29-31
• I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.  Psalm 139: 13-15
• "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."  Jeremiah 29:1-12

     After sharing the verses (and discovering that we cannot count the number of hairs on our head) we talked about what it means that God created us, planned us, and has a purpose for our lives.  I often tell my five year-olds that we are like secret agents and God has a special mission for us.  We just have to figure out what God's mission is.

     Next we read one of my favorite children's books, I Like Me by Nancy Carlson.  It was one of my daughter's favorite books as well.  It is about a pig and the things the pig likes about herself.  And when the pig falls, she picks herself right back up.  At one point in the book the pig looks in a mirror and says, "Hi, Good Lookin'!"  I passed around a mirror and had the kids look in the mirror and say, "Hi, Good Lookin'!"  We all laughed and had a great time as we did it.  I am sure some of my parents already wonder what is going on in The Castle Class!  I can envision all of them looking in their mirrors at home.

     We concluded our time together sharing the "All About Me" posters we had made the day before.  After each child presented their poster we clapped and cheered and said, "God did a great job when he created ....!"

     There are lots of preparations to make and I would covet your prayers.  Please pray that I will be able to answer the kid's questions, be able to point them to the sovereignty of God, and be a worthy example of compassion.

It is almost my favorite time of year again!  I can hardly wait to see what God is going to do!  Just one week from tomorrow we will be starting our "How to Be a Friend to Someone with a Disability" unit.

I am busy lining up amazing people to come share with my class about what it feels like to have a disability and the amazing things God is doing through their lives. 

Last week I gathered the parents of my students together to see glimpses of what their children will be learning and experiencing over the next month.  I also shared with the kids about the fundraiser to raise money to send to Joni Eareckson Tada's "Wheels For the World" project.  I hope you will join us as I journal the reactions of my students, as well as the reactions of those watching them over the next month.  As always, it will be an incredible adventure!

Stay tuned and watch the butterflies come out!  Every butterfly will represent $1 towards the gift of mobility.

HOPE

My heart aches tonight for three dear friends that are having to adapt to a life changing diagnosis.  All three of them have overcome huge obstacles in their lives, but the recent diagnosis seems unbearable.  I want to hold them and tell them everything will be work out, but the reality is their lives will be different than expected.

Whether you are dealing with cancer, aging, or developmental delays, know there is hope and God can do far more than you ever imagined or hoped for.  Take a minute to gain some perspective from two amazing people.

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